In my first few years of being married to my husband Hugh, I found myself saying this phrase quite often, especially in the newlywed phase. It was a profound consolation to me, realizing that the actual alchemical process of love demanded that everything that was in the way of love insisted it be seen in the light of day, in the crucible of our marriage, in order for it to be healed.
What that meant was that all the ways my Adaptive Inner Child (which you’ll learn about in I Release – The Course) learned to protect me when I was hurt as a child, needed to be healed.
All my defenses, aggressions, not enough-ness, feelings of unworthiness – basically all the trauma I was still holding that prevented love from penetrating my heart. In other words, everything that was below the tip of my iceberg needed to be brought to the surface.
You may feel this is a mighty big job to ask of a marriage, but frankly that’s what we signed up for: to heal whatever was in the way of our love, our joy, from going deeper.
It was the only way we knew.
I began to realize that as I healed my trauma more and more, my life started working better.
Instead of acting out of that exhausting place of a young child who is always trying to get her external world to behave the way she needed, which most people now refer to as manifesting – I became more synchronistic. Big difference!
I discovered that just like love, a heart’s desire carried with it the same invitation; the invitation to heal everything that was in the way of that heart’s desire materializing.
Whether its thoughts of unworthiness, fear of being seen, feeling what you desire is too grandiose for your acceptance level, I Release! – The Course is the place you need to be.
As I approach my 70th Birthday in 2022, hard-wired with Elder Wisdom, I can’t wait to teach you what I’ve learned, about what it takes to create your heart’s desires!
PROGRAM OPTIONS: My curiosity led me on a 3 decades long research into trauma and it’s effects on our nervous systems, our brain and our neurobiology.
This has given me a unique perspective and understanding into how people absorb information, process their life as well as their ability to accept help.
Therefore I wanted to offer this program in a way that honors your uniqueness, so you can be available for the help that is offered in this program, in a way that works for you.
OPTION #1: This program acts like a steady beating on the drum, bringing to the surface your own unique obstacles and barriers. What comes to the surface may surprise, delight and provoke you. Consequently you may desire to work with me in real time, in the presence of a Releasing Community that will also be moving through the 10 Hindrances. This option is best for those who enjoy being surrounded by other people who are doing the work alongside them. It offers a balance between working on your own, but then joining a safe community on zoom, meeting once a month for 12 meetings. In these challenging times, isn’t connection and community more important than ever?
OPTION #2: This is strictly a home study course, with all of the benefits described above, but without the online group experience. You can work on your own in private, going through the exercises and Releasing Process at your own pace.
Together, let’s see what’s hidden beneath the surface of your iceberg that needs to be released.